Review of Bulaki by Arlene Gurung

In the 92 page long poem collection by Arlene Gurung, “Bulaki” paints a picture of violence faced by females in Nepali society. Blukai literally refers to a traditional piece of gold jewellery—a septum ring—worn mostly by married women in rural Nepal. While it enhances their beauty, it also holds spiritual significance. It is believed to be a ticket to heaven when one departs this life.

Synopsis

The poetry book “Bulaki” is inspired by the violence against women and girls in Nepali society. Arlene Gurung eloquently captures the hardships faced by women in a man’s world. Through her verses, she portrays the different roles women play in their lives, each accompanied by its own form of discrimination or abuse. The struggle for equality spans generations, from great-grandmothers to the present day. Gurung aims to remind and encourage the next generation to continue this fight even after she is gone.

Notably, the themes explored in “Bulaki” resonate not only with Nepali women but also with women worldwide. It serves as a must-read for men, offering insight into a woman’s perspective. Despite its brevity, this poetry book empowers readers with its emotional depth.

Consider “Bulaki” as an empowering gift for mothers, daughters, sisters, wives, and young adults. It sheds light on the unspoken challenges faced by women and amplifies their voices in the fight for justice and equality1.

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